Restaurants and cafés

from arriving to paying, in orderA1

In one line

In a French restaurant, prendre is the verb for ordering and je voudrais is the polite way to ask.

Nouns

The place and the people

FrenchPronunciationEnglish
le restaurant/ʁɛs.to.ʁɑ̃/restaurant
le café/ka.fe/café
la brasserie/bʁas.ʁi/brasserie
le bistrot/bis.tʁo/bistro
la terrasse/te.ʁas/outside seating
le serveur
la serveuse
/sɛʁ.vœʁ/ · /sɛʁ.vøz/waiter · waitress
le chef/ʃɛf/chef
le client/kli.jɑ̃/customer

On the table

FrenchPronunciationEnglish
la table/tabl/table
la carte
le menu
/kaʁt/ · /mə.ny/menu · set menu
l'assiette (f.)/a.sjɛt/plate
le verre/vɛʁ/glass
la tasse/tas/cup
la fourchette/fuʁ.ʃɛt/fork
le couteau/ku.to/knife
la cuillère/kɥi.jɛʁ/spoon
la serviette/sɛʁ.vjɛt/napkin
la bouteille/bu.tɛj/bottle
la carafe d'eau/ka.ʁaf/jug of tap water
l'addition (f.)/a.di.sjɔ̃/the bill
le pourboire/puʁ.bwaʁ/tip

On the menu

FrenchPronunciationEnglish
le menu du jour/mə.ny dy ʒuʁ/today's set menu
la formule/fɔʁ.myl/a set deal
l'entrée (f.)/ɑ̃.tʁe/starter
le plat/pla/main course
le dessert/de.sɛʁ/dessert
la boisson/bwa.sɔ̃/drink
le plat du jour/pla dy ʒuʁ/dish of the day
la spécialité/spe.sja.li.te/speciality

le menu in French means a fixed-price set meal, not the list of dishes. The list is la carte — which is where English "à la carte" comes from.

Verbs

VerbPronunciationEnglish
réserver/ʁe.zɛʁ.ve/to book
commander/kɔ.mɑ̃.de/to order
prendre/pʁɑ̃dʁ/to have, to order
choisir/ʃwa.ziʁ/to choose
servir/sɛʁ.viʁ/to serve
apporter/a.pɔʁ.te/to bring
payer/pe.je/to pay
laisser un pourboire/lɛ.se œ̃ puʁ.bwaʁ/to leave a tip
recommander/ʁə.kɔ.mɑ̃.de/to recommend
goûter/ɡu.te/to taste

Adjectives

MasculineFeminineEnglish
complet /kɔ̃.plɛ/complète /kɔ̃.plɛt/full, no tables
libre /libʁ/libre /libʁ/free, available
réservé /ʁe.zɛʁ.ve/réservée /ʁe.zɛʁ.ve/reserved
compris /kɔ̃.pʁi/comprise /kɔ̃.pʁiz/included
maison /mɛ.zɔ̃/—homemade — tarte maison
à emporter /a ɑ̃.pɔʁ.te/—takeaway
sur place /syʁ plas/—to eat in

Set phrases

In the order they happen

StageFrenchEnglishPronunciation
bookingJe voudrais réserver une table pour deux.I'd like to book a table for two/ʒə vu.dʁɛ ʁe.zɛʁ.ve yn tabl puʁ dø/
arrivingVous avez une table pour deux ?do you have a table for two?/vu.z‿a.ve.z‿yn tabl puʁ dø/
C'est pour combien de personnes ?how many of you?/sɛ puʁ kɔ̃.bjɛ̃ də pɛʁ.sɔn/
orderingJe voudrais…I'd like/ʒə vu.dʁɛ/
Je vais prendre…I'll have/ʒə vɛ pʁɑ̃dʁ/
Pour moi, ce sera…for me it'll be/puʁ mwa sə sə.ʁa/
Qu'est-ce que vous me conseillez ?what do you recommend?/kɛs.kə vu mə kɔ̃.sɛ.je/
drinksUne carafe d'eau, s'il vous plaît.a jug of water, please/yn ka.ʁaf do sil vu plɛ/
duringC'est délicieux.it's delicious/sɛ de.li.sjø/
Excusez-moi…excuse me…/ɛks.ky.ze mwa/
the billL'addition, s'il vous plaît.the bill, please/la.di.sjɔ̃ sil vu plɛ/
Le service est compris ?is service included?/lə sɛʁ.vis ɛ kɔ̃.pʁi/
On peut payer par carte ?can we pay by card?/ɔ̃ pø pɛ.je paʁ kaʁt/
On partage.we'll split it/ɔ̃ paʁ.taʒ/

What the waiter says

FrenchPronunciationEnglish
Vous avez choisi ?/vuz a.ve ʃwa.zi/are you ready to order?
Et comme boisson ?/e kɔm bwa.sɔ̃/and to drink?
Ça vous a plu ?/sa vuz a ply/did you enjoy it?
Vous prendrez un dessert ?/vu pʁɑ̃.dʁez œ̃ dɛ.sɛʁ/will you have a dessert?
Bonne dégustation !/bɔn de.ɡys.ta.sjɔ̃/enjoy your meal
C'est de la part de la maison./sɛ də la paʁ də la mɛ.zɔ̃/it's on the house

Traps

TrapExplanation
le menu is not the menula carte is the list of dishes; le menu is a fixed-price deal.
Tap water is freeune carafe d'eau is free and you are entitled to it. une bouteille d'eau is charged for.
Tipping is not obligatoryservice compris on the bill means service is included. A tip is optional, usually a few euros.
Je voudrais, not Je veuxJe veux is rude in a restaurant. The conditional is the polite form.
prendre for orderingJe prends un café — not Je bois.
garçon is no longer usedIt is rude today. Say Excusez-moi or S'il vous plaît.
entrée means the starterIn American English it means the main course — a dangerous false friend.

Three of those are specifically English-speaker mistakes and two cost money.

1. Water. Asking for "water" in English-speaking countries usually gets you a bottle you pay for. In France, une carafe d'eau is free tap water and asking for it is completely normal — restaurants are legally obliged to provide it.

2. Tipping. In North America a 15–20% tip is expected. In France service is already in the price (service compris), and leaving a couple of euros is generous, not minimal.

3. entrée. If you order an entrée in Paris expecting a main course, a small starter arrives.

Table manners that come up in the speaking exam

cultural rules that are not vocabulary but do carry marks

In the speaking exam, "social appropriateness" is scored separately. A few restaurant conventions the examiner expects:

1. S'il vous plaît in almost every sentence. Without it, a request is heard as an order.

2. The conditional instead of the present.

Less politePolite
Je veux un café. /ʒə vø.z‿œ̃ ka.fe/Je voudrais un café. /ʒə vu.dʁɛ.zœ̃ ka.fe/
Vous pouvez…? /vu pu.ve/Pourriez-vous…? /pu.ʁje.vu/
Donnez-moi… /dɔ.ne.mwa/Est-ce que je pourrais avoir…? /ɛs kə ʒə pu.ʁɛ.z‿a.vwaʁ/

3. Bonjour before anything else. Entering a shop or restaurant without saying Bonjour is straightforwardly rude in France — more so than a visitor expects.

4. To get the waiter's attention, raise a hand and say S'il vous plaît, not Garçon and never by clicking your fingers.

5. Bon appétit is said by the host or by whoever starts eating first.

Point three deserves emphasis because the consequence is invisible. An English speaker walking into a bakery and saying "un croissant, please" has been polite by their own standards. In France they have skipped the greeting, and the response will be noticeably cooler without anyone explaining why. Bonjour first, always, then the request.

The full politeness vocabulary is in politesse and registres.

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