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No rule tells you which verb takes
àand which takesde— the preposition is part of the verb and has to be learnt with it, like a noun's gender.
English has this exact problem and solves it the exact same way. Nobody derives from first principles that you succeed in doing but manage to do, that you look forward to going but hope to go. You learnt those as pairs. French
àanddeare the same kind of fact — and, unlike English, French only has three possibilities to choose between.
The forms on this page
| Form | Means | Sound |
|---|---|---|
à | to — one of the two prepositions verbs demand | /a/ |
The table
| Group | Structure | Example |
|---|---|---|
| no preposition | verb + infinitive | Je veux partir. /ʒə vø paʁ.tiʁ/ |
with à /a/ | verb + à /a/ + infinitive | Je commence à comprendre. /ʒə kɔ.mɑ̃s a kɔ̃.pʁɑ̃dʁ/ |
with de /də/ | verb + de /də/ + infinitive | J'essaie de comprendre. /ʒe.sɛ də kɔ̃.pʁɑ̃dʁ/ |
Verbs with no preposition
The infinitive follows directly. These are mostly verbs of wanting, being able and moving:
| Verb | Pronunciation | Meaning |
|---|---|---|
vouloir | /vu.lwaʁ/ | to want |
pouvoir | /pu.vwaʁ/ | to be able to |
devoir | /də.vwaʁ/ | to have to |
savoir | /sa.vwaʁ/ | to know how to |
aimer | /ɛ.me/ | to like |
préférer | /pʁe.fe.ʁe/ | to prefer |
détester | /de.tɛs.te/ | to hate |
espérer | /ɛs.pe.ʁe/ | to hope |
penser | /pɑ̃.se/ | to intend |
aller | /a.le/ | to be going to |
venir | /və.niʁ/ | to come (to do) |
falloir | /fa.lwaʁ/ | to be necessary |
laisser | /lɛ.se/ | to let |
faire | /fɛʁ/ | to make (somebody do) |
oser | /o.ze/ | to dare |
sembler | /sɑ̃.ble/ | to seem |
Note that several of these take "to" in English — "want to go", "hope to go", "prefer to go" — and take nothing in French.
Je veux partir, not. English "to" is part of the infinitive, not a preposition, so it never translates.Je veux à partir
Verbs with à
Their shared sense is often "movement towards, beginning, trying":
| Verb | Pronunciation | Meaning |
|---|---|---|
commencer à | /kɔ.mɑ̃.se a/ | to begin to |
continuer à | /kɔ̃.ti.ny.e a/ | to continue to |
apprendre à | /a.pʁɑ̃dʁ a/ | to learn to |
réussir à | /ʁe.y.siʁ a/ | to succeed in |
arriver à | /a.ʁi.ve a/ | to manage to |
chercher à | /ʃɛʁ.ʃe a/ | to seek to |
hésiter à | /e.zi.te a/ | to hesitate to |
aider à | /ɛ.de a/ | to help to |
inviter à | /ɛ̃.vi.te a/ | to invite to |
se mettre à | /sə mɛtʁ a/ | to start suddenly |
penser à | /pɑ̃.se a/ | to think about |
s'attendre à | /sa.tɑ̃dʁ a/ | to expect |
renoncer à | /ʁə.nɔ̃.se a/ | to give up |
s'habituer à | /sa.bi.ty.e a/ | to get used to |
Verbs with de
Their shared sense is often "ending, separating, attempting, saying":
| Verb | Pronunciation | Meaning |
|---|---|---|
essayer de | /e.sɛ.je də/ | to try to |
finir de | /fi.niʁ də/ | to finish |
arrêter de | /a.ʁɛ.te də/ | to stop |
oublier de | /u.bli.e də/ | to forget to |
décider de | /de.si.de də/ | to decide to |
refuser de | /ʁə.fy.ze də/ | to refuse to |
accepter de | /ak.sɛp.te də/ | to agree to |
choisir de | /ʃwa.ziʁ də/ | to choose to |
éviter de | /e.vi.te də/ | to avoid |
promettre de | /pʁo.mɛtʁ də/ | to promise to |
proposer de | /pʁo.po.ze də/ | to suggest |
demander de | /də.mɑ̃.de də/ | to ask to |
dire de | /diʁ də/ | to tell to |
avoir besoin de | /a.vwaʁ bə.zwɛ̃ də/ | to need to |
avoir envie de | /a.vwaʁ ɑ̃.vi də/ | to feel like |
avoir peur de | /a.vwaʁ pœʁ də/ | to be afraid to |
être obligé de | /ɛtʁ ɔ.bli.ʒe də/ | to have to |
venir de | /və.niʁ də/ | to have just |
se souvenir de | /sə suv.niʁ də/ | to remember |
rêver de | /ʁɛ.ve də/ | to dream of |
venirhas two meanings and the preposition separates them:
Je viens manger.— I'm coming to eatJe viens de manger.— I've just eaten
Pairs that take both prepositions
| Verb | With à | With de |
|---|---|---|
commencer /kɔ.mɑ̃.se/ | commencer à faire /kɔ.mɑ̃.se a fɛʁ/ — to start doing | commencer par /kɔ.mɑ̃.se paʁ/ — to start with |
décider /de.si.de/ | se décider à /sə de.si.de a/ — to make up one's mind | décider de /de.si.de də/ — to decide to |
demander /də.mɑ̃.de/ | demander à /də.mɑ̃.de a/ + inf. (for oneself) | demander de /də.mɑ̃.de də/ + inf. (of somebody else) |
parler /paʁ.le/ | parler à /paʁ.le a/ — to somebody | parler de /paʁ.le də/ — about something |
penser /pɑ̃.se/ | penser à /pɑ̃.se a/ — to think about | penser de /pɑ̃.se də/ — to have an opinion of |
jouer /ʒwe/ | jouer à /ʒwe a/ — sports and games | jouer de /ʒwe də/ — musical instruments |
manquer /mɑ̃.ke/ | manquer à /mɑ̃.ke a/ — to be missed by | manquer de /mɑ̃.ke də/ — to lack |
Two of these come up constantly:
| Pronunciation | ||
|---|---|---|
Je joue au tennis. | I play tennis | /ʒə ʒu o tɛ.nis/ |
Je joue du piano. | I play the piano | /ʒə ʒu dy pja.no/ |
Qu'est-ce que tu penses de ce film ? | what do you think of this film? | /kɛs.kə ty pɑ̃s də sə film/ |
Je pense à ce film. | I'm thinking about this film | /ʒə pɑ̃s a sə film/ |
English uses "play" for both sports and instruments and gives you no warning that French splits them. Sports and games take
à; instruments takede.And
penser à/penser demaps neatly onto English "think about" versus "think of" in the sense of having an opinion.
Two objects at once
Some verbs take a direct object and an à as well:
| Structure | Example |
|---|---|
demander qch à qn /də.mɑ̃.de ky.se.aʃ a ky.ɛn/ | Je demande l'heure à Marie. /ʒə də.mɑ̃d lœʁ a ma.ʁi/ |
dire qch à qn /diʁ ky.se.aʃ a ky.ɛn/ | Je dis la vérité à mon ami. /ʒə di la ve.ʁi.te a mɔ̃.n‿a.mi/ |
donner qch à qn /dɔ.ne ky.se.aʃ a ky.ɛn/ | Je donne le livre à Paul. /ʒə dɔn lə livʁ a pɔl/ |
promettre à qn de faire /pʁo.mɛtʁ a ky.ɛn də fɛʁ/ | Je promets à Marie de venir. /ʒə pʁo.mɛ.z‿a ma.ʁi də və.niʁ/ |
demander à qn de faire /də.mɑ̃.de a ky.ɛn də fɛʁ/ | Je demande à Paul de partir. /ʒə də.mɑ̃d a pɔl də paʁ.tiʁ/ |
conseiller à qn de faire /kɔ̃.sɛ.je a ky.ɛn də fɛʁ/ | Je lui conseille de partir. /ʒə lɥi kɔ̃.sɛj də paʁ.tiʁ/ |
The pattern: the thing is direct, the person takes
à. And if an infinitive follows, it comes withde.English reverses this in a way that catches people out. English says "ask Paul to leave" — person first, no preposition. French says
demander à Paul de partir— the person takesà, and the infinitive takesde. The same applies todire à,promettre à,conseiller à,permettre à,défendre à.
Examples
| English | French | Pronunciation |
|---|---|---|
| I want to go. | Je veux partir. | /ʒə vø paʁ.tiʁ/ |
| I'm beginning to understand. | Je commence à comprendre. | /ʒə kɔ.mɑ̃s a kɔ̃.pʁɑ̃dʁ/ |
| I'm trying to understand. | J'essaie de comprendre. | /ʒe.sɛ də kɔ̃.pʁɑ̃dʁ/ |
| I forgot to phone. | J'ai oublié de téléphoner. | /ʒe u.bli.je də te.le.fɔ.ne/ |
| I'm learning to write. | J'apprends à écrire. | /ʒa.pʁɑ̃.z‿a e.kʁiʁ/ |
| I've just arrived. | Je viens d'arriver. | /ʒə vjɛ̃ da.ʁi.ve/ |
| I play tennis. | Je joue au tennis. | /ʒə ʒu o tɛ.nis/ |
| I play the piano. | Je joue du piano. | /ʒə ʒu dy pja.no/ |
| I asked him to come. | Je lui ai demandé de venir. | /ʒə lɥi.j‿e də.mɑ̃.de də və.niʁ/ |
| I decided to stay. | J'ai décidé de rester. | /ʒe de.si.de də ʁɛs.te/ |
Common mistakes
| ❌ | ✅ | Why |
|---|---|---|
Je veux de partir. | Je veux partir. | vouloir takes nothing |
J'essaie à comprendre. | J'essaie de comprendre. | essayer takes de |
Je commence de travailler. | Je commence à travailler. | commencer takes à |
Je joue du tennis. | Je joue au tennis. | Sports take à |
Je pense de toi. | Je pense à toi. | Thinking about takes à |
J'ai besoin partir. | J'ai besoin de partir. | avoir besoin always takes de |
Je demande Paul de partir. | Je demande à Paul de partir. | The person takes à |
Is there really no logic
a half-pattern that helps and is not enough
There is a general tendency, with many exceptions:
| Preposition | Underlying sense | Example |
|---|---|---|
à /a/ | movement towards something, beginning, aim | commencer à /kɔ.mɑ̃.se a/ apprendre à /a.pʁɑ̃dʁ a/ réussir à /ʁe.y.siʁ a/ |
de /də/ | movement from something, ending, separation, source | finir de /fi.niʁ də/ arrêter de /a.ʁɛ.te də/ venir de /və.niʁ də/ |
| none | the verb is complete in itself | vouloir /vu.lwaʁ/ pouvoir /pu.vwaʁ/ savoir /sa.vwaʁ/ |
This comes from the basic meanings of the two prepositions: à is a destination, de is an origin.
But do not rely on it. essayer de ought logically to take à (an effort towards something) and does not. chercher à and essayer de are near-synonyms with different prepositions.
English has an identical half-logic and identical exceptions. Begin to, learn to, manage to all point forward; stop, finish, give up all point back — and then succeed in, insist on, look forward to break the pattern for no reason anyone can state. You did not learn those from a rule either.
So the right method is the same one you already use: never memorise the verb bare. Do not learn essayer — learn essayer de. Just as you do not learn table but la table.
In this cheatsheet's verb list, each verb's preposition is given at the top of its page.