Verb + preposition — à, de, or nothing

a list that has to be memorised with the verbB1

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No rule tells you which verb takes à and which takes de — the preposition is part of the verb and has to be learnt with it, like a noun's gender.

English has this exact problem and solves it the exact same way. Nobody derives from first principles that you succeed in doing but manage to do, that you look forward to going but hope to go. You learnt those as pairs. French à and de are the same kind of fact — and, unlike English, French only has three possibilities to choose between.

The forms on this page

FormMeansSound
àto — one of the two prepositions verbs demand/a/

The table

GroupStructureExample
no prepositionverb + infinitiveJe veux partir. /ʒə vø paʁ.tiʁ/
with à /a/verb + à /a/ + infinitiveJe commence à comprendre. /ʒə kɔ.mɑ̃s a kɔ̃.pʁɑ̃dʁ/
with de /də/verb + de /də/ + infinitiveJ'essaie de comprendre. /ʒe.sɛ də kɔ̃.pʁɑ̃dʁ/

Verbs with no preposition

The infinitive follows directly. These are mostly verbs of wanting, being able and moving:

VerbPronunciationMeaning
vouloir/vu.lwaʁ/to want
pouvoir/pu.vwaʁ/to be able to
devoir/də.vwaʁ/to have to
savoir/sa.vwaʁ/to know how to
aimer/ɛ.me/to like
préférer/pʁe.fe.ʁe/to prefer
détester/de.tɛs.te/to hate
espérer/ɛs.pe.ʁe/to hope
penser/pɑ̃.se/to intend
aller/a.le/to be going to
venir/və.niʁ/to come (to do)
falloir/fa.lwaʁ/to be necessary
laisser/lɛ.se/to let
faire/fɛʁ/to make (somebody do)
oser/o.ze/to dare
sembler/sɑ̃.ble/to seem

Note that several of these take "to" in English — "want to go", "hope to go", "prefer to go" — and take nothing in French. Je veux partir, not Je veux à partir. English "to" is part of the infinitive, not a preposition, so it never translates.

Verbs with à

Their shared sense is often "movement towards, beginning, trying":

VerbPronunciationMeaning
commencer à/kɔ.mɑ̃.se a/to begin to
continuer à/kɔ̃.ti.ny.e a/to continue to
apprendre à/a.pʁɑ̃dʁ a/to learn to
réussir à/ʁe.y.siʁ a/to succeed in
arriver à/a.ʁi.ve a/to manage to
chercher à/ʃɛʁ.ʃe a/to seek to
hésiter à/e.zi.te a/to hesitate to
aider à/ɛ.de a/to help to
inviter à/ɛ̃.vi.te a/to invite to
se mettre à/sə mɛtʁ a/to start suddenly
penser à/pɑ̃.se a/to think about
s'attendre à/sa.tɑ̃dʁ a/to expect
renoncer à/ʁə.nɔ̃.se a/to give up
s'habituer à/sa.bi.ty.e a/to get used to

Verbs with de

Their shared sense is often "ending, separating, attempting, saying":

VerbPronunciationMeaning
essayer de/e.sɛ.je də/to try to
finir de/fi.niʁ də/to finish
arrêter de/a.ʁɛ.te də/to stop
oublier de/u.bli.e də/to forget to
décider de/de.si.de də/to decide to
refuser de/ʁə.fy.ze də/to refuse to
accepter de/ak.sɛp.te də/to agree to
choisir de/ʃwa.ziʁ də/to choose to
éviter de/e.vi.te də/to avoid
promettre de/pʁo.mɛtʁ də/to promise to
proposer de/pʁo.po.ze də/to suggest
demander de/də.mɑ̃.de də/to ask to
dire de/diʁ də/to tell to
avoir besoin de/a.vwaʁ bə.zwɛ̃ də/to need to
avoir envie de/a.vwaʁ ɑ̃.vi də/to feel like
avoir peur de/a.vwaʁ pœʁ də/to be afraid to
être obligé de/ɛtʁ ɔ.bli.ʒe də/to have to
venir de/və.niʁ də/to have just
se souvenir de/sə suv.niʁ də/to remember
rêver de/ʁɛ.ve də/to dream of

venir has two meanings and the preposition separates them:

Je viens manger. — I'm coming to eat Je viens de manger. — I've just eaten

Pairs that take both prepositions

VerbWith àWith de
commencer /kɔ.mɑ̃.se/commencer à faire /kɔ.mɑ̃.se a fɛʁ/ — to start doingcommencer par /kɔ.mɑ̃.se paʁ/ — to start with
décider /de.si.de/se décider à /sə de.si.de a/ — to make up one's minddécider de /de.si.de də/ — to decide to
demander /də.mɑ̃.de/demander à /də.mɑ̃.de a/ + inf. (for oneself)demander de /də.mɑ̃.de də/ + inf. (of somebody else)
parler /paʁ.le/parler à /paʁ.le a/ — to somebodyparler de /paʁ.le də/ — about something
penser /pɑ̃.se/penser à /pɑ̃.se a/ — to think aboutpenser de /pɑ̃.se də/ — to have an opinion of
jouer /ʒwe/jouer à /ʒwe a/ — sports and gamesjouer de /ʒwe də/ — musical instruments
manquer /mɑ̃.ke/manquer à /mɑ̃.ke a/ — to be missed bymanquer de /mɑ̃.ke də/ — to lack

Two of these come up constantly:

Pronunciation
Je joue au tennis.I play tennis/ʒə ʒu o tɛ.nis/
Je joue du piano.I play the piano/ʒə ʒu dy pja.no/
Qu'est-ce que tu penses de ce film ?what do you think of this film?/kɛs.kə ty pɑ̃s də sə film/
Je pense à ce film.I'm thinking about this film/ʒə pɑ̃s a sə film/

English uses "play" for both sports and instruments and gives you no warning that French splits them. Sports and games take à; instruments take de.

And penser à / penser de maps neatly onto English "think about" versus "think of" in the sense of having an opinion.

Two objects at once

Some verbs take a direct object and an à as well:

StructureExample
demander qch à qn /də.mɑ̃.de ky.se.aʃ a ky.ɛn/Je demande l'heure à Marie. /ʒə də.mɑ̃d lœʁ a ma.ʁi/
dire qch à qn /diʁ ky.se.aʃ a ky.ɛn/Je dis la vérité à mon ami. /ʒə di la ve.ʁi.te a mɔ̃.n‿a.mi/
donner qch à qn /dɔ.ne ky.se.aʃ a ky.ɛn/Je donne le livre à Paul. /ʒə dɔn lə livʁ a pɔl/
promettre à qn de faire /pʁo.mɛtʁ a ky.ɛn də fɛʁ/Je promets à Marie de venir. /ʒə pʁo.mɛ.z‿a ma.ʁi də və.niʁ/
demander à qn de faire /də.mɑ̃.de a ky.ɛn də fɛʁ/Je demande à Paul de partir. /ʒə də.mɑ̃d a pɔl də paʁ.tiʁ/
conseiller à qn de faire /kɔ̃.sɛ.je a ky.ɛn də fɛʁ/Je lui conseille de partir. /ʒə lɥi kɔ̃.sɛj də paʁ.tiʁ/

The pattern: the thing is direct, the person takes à. And if an infinitive follows, it comes with de.

English reverses this in a way that catches people out. English says "ask Paul to leave" — person first, no preposition. French says demander à Paul de partir — the person takes à, and the infinitive takes de. The same applies to dire à, promettre à, conseiller à, permettre à, défendre à.

Examples

EnglishFrenchPronunciation
I want to go.Je veux partir./ʒə vø paʁ.tiʁ/
I'm beginning to understand.Je commence à comprendre./ʒə kɔ.mɑ̃s a kɔ̃.pʁɑ̃dʁ/
I'm trying to understand.J'essaie de comprendre./ʒe.sɛ də kɔ̃.pʁɑ̃dʁ/
I forgot to phone.J'ai oublié de téléphoner./ʒe u.bli.je də te.le.fɔ.ne/
I'm learning to write.J'apprends à écrire./ʒa.pʁɑ̃.z‿a e.kʁiʁ/
I've just arrived.Je viens d'arriver./ʒə vjɛ̃ da.ʁi.ve/
I play tennis.Je joue au tennis./ʒə ʒu o tɛ.nis/
I play the piano.Je joue du piano./ʒə ʒu dy pja.no/
I asked him to come.Je lui ai demandé de venir./ʒə lɥi.j‿e də.mɑ̃.de də və.niʁ/
I decided to stay.J'ai décidé de rester./ʒe de.si.de də ʁɛs.te/

Common mistakes

❌✅Why
Je veux de partir.Je veux partir.vouloir takes nothing
J'essaie à comprendre.J'essaie de comprendre.essayer takes de
Je commence de travailler.Je commence à travailler.commencer takes à
Je joue du tennis.Je joue au tennis.Sports take à
Je pense de toi.Je pense à toi.Thinking about takes à
J'ai besoin partir.J'ai besoin de partir.avoir besoin always takes de
Je demande Paul de partir.Je demande à Paul de partir.The person takes à

Is there really no logic

a half-pattern that helps and is not enough

There is a general tendency, with many exceptions:

PrepositionUnderlying senseExample
à /a/movement towards something, beginning, aimcommencer à /kɔ.mɑ̃.se a/
apprendre à /a.pʁɑ̃dʁ a/
réussir à /ʁe.y.siʁ a/
de /də/movement from something, ending, separation, sourcefinir de /fi.niʁ də/
arrêter de /a.ʁɛ.te də/
venir de /və.niʁ də/
nonethe verb is complete in itselfvouloir /vu.lwaʁ/
pouvoir /pu.vwaʁ/
savoir /sa.vwaʁ/

This comes from the basic meanings of the two prepositions: à is a destination, de is an origin.

But do not rely on it. essayer de ought logically to take à (an effort towards something) and does not. chercher à and essayer de are near-synonyms with different prepositions.

English has an identical half-logic and identical exceptions. Begin to, learn to, manage to all point forward; stop, finish, give up all point back — and then succeed in, insist on, look forward to break the pattern for no reason anyone can state. You did not learn those from a rule either.

So the right method is the same one you already use: never memorise the verb bare. Do not learn essayer — learn essayer de. Just as you do not learn table but la table.

In this cheatsheet's verb list, each verb's preposition is given at the top of its page.

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