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A closed list of about 15 verbs of motion take
être— and their participle agrees with the subject, like an adjective.
The forms on this page
| Form | Means | Sound |
|---|---|---|
être | to be — here it carries no meaning, it is only the auxiliary | /ɛtʁ/ |
The table
The full list — and they come in pairs
| Verb | Meaning | Its pair | Meaning |
|---|---|---|---|
aller /a.le/ | to go | venir /və.niʁ/ | to come |
arriver /a.ʁi.ve/ | to arrive | partir /paʁ.tiʁ/ | to leave |
entrer /ɑ̃.tʁe/ | to go in | sortir /sɔʁ.tiʁ/ | to go out |
monter /mɔ̃.te/ | to go up | descendre /dɛ.sɑ̃dʁ/ | to go down |
naître /nɛtʁ/ | to be born | mourir /mu.ʁiʁ/ | to die |
rester /ʁɛs.te/ | to stay | tomber /tɔ̃.be/ | to fall |
retourner /ʁə.tuʁ.ne/ | to return | passer /pa.se/ | to pass by — not a pair; both were simply added to this list |
devenir /dəv.niʁ/ | to become | — | no pair; it belongs to the venir family |
And their compounds: revenir · rentrer · repartir · remonter
Look at the pattern: every one of them is either movement or a change of state. Going, coming, being born, dying.
Agreement — this is the real difference from avoir
| Subject | Participle | Pronunciation |
|---|---|---|
| masculine singular | allé | /a.le/ |
| feminine singular | allée | /a.le/ |
| masculine plural | allés | /a.le/ |
| feminine plural | allées | /a.le/ |
Exactly like an adjective: + e for feminine, + s for plural.
| Pronunciation | ||
|---|---|---|
Il est allé. | he went | /il ɛ.t‿a.le/ |
Elle est allée. | she went | /ɛl ɛ.t‿a.le/ |
Ils sont allés. | they went | /il sɔ̃.t‿a.le/ |
Elles sont allées. | they went (all women) | /ɛl sɔ̃.t‿a.le/ |
And none of it is audible — /a.le/ in all four. This agreement exists on paper only.
English used to do this too. "He is risen", "the guests are arrived" — until a few centuries ago English also built the past of motion verbs with "be" rather than "have". It survives now only in set phrases and hymns. French kept the system and English lost it, so what looks like an arbitrary list is really the older pattern, still running.
Exceptions
| Exception | What happens |
|---|---|
monter /mɔ̃.te/ · descendre /dɛ.sɑ̃dʁ/ · passer /pa.se/ · sortir /sɔʁ.tiʁ/ · rentrer /ʁɑ̃.tʁe/ take avoir /a.vwaʁ/ when they have an object | Je suis sorti. /ʒə sɥi sɔʁ.ti/ I went out J'ai sorti le chien. /ʒe sɔʁ.ti lə ʃjɛ̃/ I took the dog out |
Reflexive verbs also take être /ɛtʁ/ | je me suis lavé /ʒə mə sɥi la.ve/ |
être /ɛtʁ/ itself takes avoir /a.vwaʁ/ | J'ai été malade. /ʒe e.te ma.lad/ |
In the negative, ne … pas /nə pa/ wraps être /ɛtʁ/ | Je ne suis pas allé. /ʒə nə sɥi pa.za.le/ |
Examples
| English | French | Pronunciation |
|---|---|---|
| I went to the park | Je suis allé au parc. | /ʒə sɥi.za.le o paʁk/ |
| She came | Elle est venue. | /ɛ.lɛ və.ny/ |
| They arrived | Ils sont arrivés. | /il sɔ̃.ta.ʁi.ve/ |
| We stayed at home | Nous sommes restés à la maison. | /nu sɔm ʁɛs.te a la mɛ.zɔ̃/ |
| I didn't go | Je ne suis pas allé. | /ʒə nə sɥi pa.za.le/ |
| I took the dog out | J'ai sorti le chien. | /ʒe sɔʁ.ti lə ʃjɛ̃/ |
Common mistakes
| ❌ | ✅ | Why |
|---|---|---|
J'ai allé. | Je suis allé. | aller is on the être list |
Elle est allé. | Elle est allée. | With être the agreement is compulsory |
Je suis mangé. | J'ai mangé. | manger is not a verb of motion |
Je suis sorti le chien. | J'ai sorti le chien. | With an object it takes avoir |
Elle est venu. | Elle est venue. | Feminine + e |
How to learn the list
learn the pairs, not the list
The French use the mnemonic DR MRS VANDERTRAMP — the first letters of the verbs. It works if you already know them and is no help at all while you are learning them.
Better: seven opposite pairs.
| Pronunciation | ||
|---|---|---|
| go ↔ come | aller ↔ venir | /a.le/ · /və.niʁ/ |
| arrive ↔ leave | arriver ↔ partir | /a.ʁi.ve/ · /paʁ.tiʁ/ |
| go in ↔ go out | entrer ↔ sortir | /ɑ̃.tʁe/ · /sɔʁ.tiʁ/ |
| up ↔ down | monter ↔ descendre | /mɔ̃.te/ · /dɛ.sɑ̃dʁ/ |
| be born ↔ die | naître ↔ mourir | /nɛtʁ/ · /mu.ʁiʁ/ |
| stay ↔ fall | rester ↔ tomber | /ʁɛs.te/ · /tɔ̃.be/ |
| return ↔ pass | retourner ↔ passer | /ʁə.tuʁ.ne/ · /pa.se/ |
Plus devenir, which stands alone.
And a rule of meaning that almost always works: if the verb is a change of place or a change of existence, it takes être.