Stressed pronouns — moi toi lui elle

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Whenever a pronoun follows a preposition, stands alone, or carries emphasis, you need the stressed form — because je and me cannot stand on their own.

The forms on this page

FormMeansSound
toiyou — the form that can stand alone/twa/
luihim — and the same word is also the indirect pronoun/lɥi/
elleher — its subject and stressed forms are identical/ɛl/

The table

EnglishSubjectStressed
meje /ʒə/moi /mwa/
youtu /ty/toi /twa/
himil /il/lui /lɥi/
herelle /ɛl/elle /ɛl/
oneselfon /ɔ̃/soi /swa/
usnous /nu/nous /nu/
you (plural)vous /vu/vous /vu/
them (masculine)ils /il/eux /ø/
them (feminine)elles /ɛl/elles /ɛl/

Only four are genuinely new: moi toi lui eux. The rest are identical to the subject forms.

English has this category and you use it every day. "With me", "for him", "It's them", "taller than me" — English switches from I/he/they to me/him/them in precisely the same positions. So the idea needs no work at all. What differs is one boundary: English is drifting toward "It's me" and "than me" as normal (with prescriptivists insisting on "It is I"), while French settled the question centuries ago. C'est moi and plus grand que moi are simply correct — there is no formal alternative to worry about.

lui has two roles and this is confusing: it is both the indirect object pronoun (Je lui parle = I speak to him) and the masculine stressed form (avec lui = with him). Its position in the sentence tells you which.

Where it is needed — six places

SituationExamplePronunciation
after a prepositionavec moi
chez eux
pour elle
sans toi
/a.vɛk mwa/ · /ʃe.z‿ø/ · /puʁ ɛl/ · /sɑ̃ twa/
alone, with no verb— Qui vient ? — Moi !/ki vjɛ̃/ · /mwa/
after c'estC'est lui.
C'est nous.
/sɛ lɥi/ · /sɛ nu/
in a comparisonIl est plus grand que moi./i.l‿ɛ ply ɡʁɑ̃ kə mwa/
for emphasisMoi, je pense que…/mwa ʒə pɑ̃s kə/
in a positive imperativeRegarde-moi !
Donne-le-lui !
/ʁə.ɡaʁd.mwa/ · /dɔn.lə.lɥi/

And two uses that come up less often

Pronunciation
two subjects togetherToi et moi, nous partons./twa e mwa nu paʁ.tɔ̃/
with -mêmeJe le fais moi-même. — I'll do it myself/ʒə lə fɛ mwa.mɛm/

Moi, je pense que… deserves its own note, because English cannot do it. French cannot stress a subject pronoun — je is too weak to carry emphasis — so it puts the stressed form out in front and repeats the subject: Moi, je pense…, Lui, il ne sait pas, Nous, on part demain. English gets the same effect with the voice alone: "I think…". Since French has no such option, this doubling is everywhere in speech, and using it is one of the quickest ways to sound less like a textbook.

soi — the pronoun used only with an indefinite subject

When the subject is on, chacun, tout le monde or an infinitive:

Pronunciation
Chacun pour soi.every man for himself/ʃa.kœ̃ puʁ swa/
Il faut avoir confiance en soi.one must have self-confidence/il fo.t‿a.vwaʁ kɔ̃.fjɑ̃s ɑ̃ swa/
On rentre chez soi.you go home to your own place/ɔ̃ ʁɑ̃tʁ ʃe swa/

With a definite subject, soi is wrong: Il rentre chez lui, not chez soi

Examples

EnglishFrenchPronunciation
Come with me.Viens avec moi./vjɛ̃.z‿a.vɛk mwa/
It's at their place.C'est chez eux./sɛ ʃe.z‿ø/
Who? Me!Qui ? Moi !/ki mwa/
It's him.C'est lui./sɛ lɥi/
He's taller than me.Il est plus grand que moi./i.l‿ɛ ply ɡʁɑ̃ kə mwa/
I don't think so, myself.Moi, je ne pense pas ça./mwa ʒə nə pɑ̃s pa sa/
I won't go without you.Je ne pars pas sans toi./ʒə nə paʁ pa sɑ̃ twa/
I did it myself.Je l'ai fait moi-même./ʒə le fɛ mwa mɛm/
You and me.Toi et moi./twa e mwa/
I'm thinking about her.Je pense à elle./ʒə pɑ̃s a ɛl/

Common mistakes

❌✅Why
avec jeavec moiThe stressed form after a preposition
C'est je.C'est moi.The same after c'est
plus grand que jeplus grand que moiThe same in a comparison
Qui vient ? — Je.— Moi.A subject pronoun cannot stand alone
Il rentre chez soi.Il rentre chez lui.soi only with an indefinite subject
Regarde-me !Regarde-moi !The positive imperative takes the stressed form

Why French has two sets of pronouns

one set attached itself to the verb, the other stayed free

Latin had only one set and used it wherever it was needed.

In French the subject and object pronouns attached themselves to the verb and lost their stress — je is barely a neutral syllable, /ʒə/, and in speech it reduces to /ʒ/. An unstressed word cannot stand alone or carry emphasis.

So the language had to keep a second set that could be stressed: moi /mwa/ — a full, long syllable.

English did the same thing and you can hear it. "I" in "I think so" is a weak /aɪ/ that reduces to almost nothing in speech, while "me" in "give it to me" is a full stressed syllable. That is why English also switched to the object form in "It's me" and "Who's there? — Me" — a weak pronoun cannot bear stress in English either. French made the same split; it simply drew the line more clearly and stopped arguing about it.

A quick test: if you could say the pronoun loudly, on its own, with emphasis, you need the stressed form.

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