
Stop Caring What People Think: Everyone Is Too Busy To Judge You (& Why That's Good)
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- Relationships & psychology
Ever feel like your brain is screaming at you because you tripped in public or said something weird? Stop the panic. You think everyone is watching, but they’re not—that’s just the spotlight effect playing tricks on your evolutionary survival instincts. In this episode, we dive deep into the psychology of overcoming embarrassment and turning those cringey moments into fuel for genuine human connection. What you will learn: Why your brain triggers a 'fight or flight' response when you're awkward.The science behind the spot...
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Fast, dense and idiomatic
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- 165 words a minute: natural, fairly fast speech.
- 647 harder words (B2 and up) in the whole episode.
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I want you to do something for me right now, unless you are operating heavy machinery or driving down the highway, I want you to close your eyes. Always a good disclaimer. Right, yeah. Safety first. But really, we are going to conduct a brief,
uh, slightly uncomfortable cognitive experiment here. Oh boy. Yeah. I want you to actively search your memory banks for a moment that you just desperately wish you could highlight, drag into the trash bin of your brain, and like,
permanently delete. We all have them. Oh, absolutely. You know the exact kind of memory I am talking about. It might be an incident from a decade ago in a high school cafeteria.
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