Feelings and character

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Character takes être, a passing state often takes avoir — and a feeling followed by que triggers the subjunctive.

Nouns

FrenchPronunciationEnglish
le sentiment/sɑ̃.ti.mɑ̃/feeling
l'émotion (f.)/e.mo.sjɔ̃/emotion
l'humeur (f.)/y.mœʁ/mood
le caractère/ka.ʁak.tɛʁ/character
la joie/ʒwa/joy
le bonheur/bɔ.nœʁ/happiness
la tristesse/tʁis.tɛs/sadness
la colère/kɔ.lɛʁ/anger
la peur/pœʁ/fear
l'inquiétude (f.)/ɛ̃.kje.tyd/worry
le stress/stʁɛs/stress
la surprise/syʁ.pʁiz/surprise
la honte/ɔ̃t/shame — aspirate h
la fierté/fjɛʁ.te/pride
l'amour (m.)/a.muʁ/love
la haine/ɛn/hatred — aspirate h
l'espoir (m.)/ɛs.pwaʁ/hope
la déception/de.sɛp.sjɔ̃/disappointment
la confiance/kɔ̃.fjɑ̃s/trust
la patience/pa.sjɑ̃s/patience

Two of these mean the opposite of what an English speaker expects.

FrenchActually meansEnglish "same" word
la déceptiondisappointmentdeception = la tromperie
sensiblesensitivesensible = raisonnable

Je suis déçu means "I'm disappointed", not "I've been deceived" — a much milder thing to say than it looks. And Elle est très sensible says she is easily hurt, not that she has good judgement. Saying it about a colleague in a meeting is not the compliment you intended.

Adjectives — passing states

MasculineFeminineEnglish
content /kɔ̃.tɑ̃/contente /kɔ̃.tɑ̃t/pleased
heureux /ø.ʁø/heureuse /ø.ʁøz/happy
triste /tʁist/triste /tʁist/sad
fatigué /fa.ti.ɡe/fatiguée /fa.ti.ɡe/tired
en colère /ɑ̃ ko.lɛʁ/—angry
inquiet /ɛ̃.kjɛ/inquiète /ɛ̃.kjɛt/worried
stressé /stʁɛ.se/stressée /stʁɛ.se/stressed
surpris /syʁ.pʁi/surprise /syʁ.pʁiz/surprised
déçu /de.sy/déçue /de.sy/disappointed
soulagé /su.la.ʒe/soulagée /su.la.ʒe/relieved
énervé /e.nɛʁ.ve/énervée /e.nɛʁ.ve/irritated
de bonne humeur /də bɔ.n‿y.mœʁ/—in a good mood
de mauvaise humeur /də mo.vɛ.z‿y.mœʁ/—in a bad mood

Adjectives — character

MasculineFeminineEnglish
gentil /ʒɑ̃.ti/gentille /ʒɑ̃.tij/kind
sympathique /sɛ̃.pa.tik/
sympa /sɛ̃.pa/
—likeable, friendly
généreux /ʒe.ne.ʁø/généreuse /ʒe.ne.ʁøz/generous
honnête /ɔ.nɛt/honnête /ɔ.nɛt/honest
sérieux /se.ʁjø/sérieuse /se.ʁjøz/serious, dependable
travailleur /tʁa.va.jœʁ/travailleuse /tʁa.va.jøz/hard-working
patient /pa.sjɑ̃/patiente /pa.sjɑ̃t/patient
calme /kalm/calme /kalm/calm
timide /ti.mid/timide /ti.mid/shy
bavard /ba.vaʁ/bavarde /ba.vaʁd/talkative
drôle /dʁol/drôle /dʁol/funny
curieux /ky.ʁjø/curieuse /ky.ʁjøz/curious
ambitieux /ɑ̃.bi.sjø/ambitieuse /ɑ̃.bi.sjøz/ambitious
égoïste /e.ɡɔ.ist/égoïste /e.ɡɔ.ist/selfish
paresseux /pa.ʁɛ.sø/paresseuse /pa.ʁɛ.søz/lazy
têtu /tɛ.ty/têtue /tɛ.ty/stubborn
méchant /me.ʃɑ̃/méchante /me.ʃɑ̃t/nasty
optimiste /ɔp.ti.mist/optimiste /ɔp.ti.mist/optimistic
pessimiste /pɛ.si.mist/pessimiste /pɛ.si.mist/pessimistic
ouvert /u.vɛʁ/ouverte /u.vɛʁt/open, outgoing

Verbs

VerbPronunciationEnglish
se sentir/sə sɑ̃.tiʁ/to feel
être content que + subjunctive/ɛtʁ kɔ̃.tɑ̃ kə/to be glad that
avoir peur de/a.vwaʁ pœʁ də/to be afraid of
s'inquiéter de/sɛ̃.kje.te də/to worry about
s'énerver/se.nɛʁ.ve/to get annoyed
se fâcher contre/sə fɑ.ʃe kɔ̃tʁ/to get angry with
pleurer/plœ.ʁe/to cry
rire/ʁiʁ/to laugh
sourire/su.ʁiʁ/to smile
aimer/ɛ.me/to like, to love
détester/de.tɛs.te/to hate
espérer/ɛs.pe.ʁe/to hope
regretter/ʁə.ɡʁɛ.te/to regret
avoir confiance en/a.vwaʁ kɔ̃.fjɑ̃s ɑ̃/to have confidence in
faire confiance à/fɛʁ kɔ̃.fjɑ̃s a/to trust

Set phrases

FrenchPronunciationEnglish
Je suis content(e) de…/ʒə sɥi kɔ̃.tɑ̃ də/I'm glad to…
Ça me fait plaisir./sa mə fɛ plɛ.ziʁ/that makes me happy
Je suis désolé(e)./ʒə sɥi de.zo.le/I'm sorry
Ça m'énerve./sa me.nɛʁv/that annoys me
J'en ai marre./ʒɑ̃.n‿e maʁ/I've had enough
Ça va mieux./sa va mjø/I'm feeling better
avoir le cafard/a.vwaʁ lə ka.faʁ/to feel down
avoir la pêche/a.vwaʁ la pɛʃ/to be full of energy
être de bonne humeur/ɛtʁ də bɔn y.mœʁ/to be in a good mood
Ne t'inquiète pas./nə tɛ̃.kjɛt pa/don't worry
Ça m'est égal./sa mɛt e.ɡal/I don't mind

Traps

TrapExplanation
avoir peur, not être peurAnd with no article: J'ai peur.
sensible means sensitive, not sensibleSensible is raisonnable. A very common false friend.
sympathique means likeableNot sympathetic. Its short form sympa never changes.
content and heureux are differentcontent is a passing state, heureux runs deeper.
A feeling takes the subjunctiveJe suis content que tu sois là. See subjonctif-declencheurs.
la honte and la haine have aspirate hla honte, not l'honte. See h-aspire.
espérer takes the indicativeJ'espère qu'il viendra — the exception among feelings.

Feelings and the subjunctive

why gladness triggers it too

The simple rule "doubt → subjunctive" does not cover this, because a feeling triggers the subjunctive even when nothing is in doubt:

Je suis content que tu sois là. — you are definitely there

The reason is that in this sentence, your being there is not the news — it is taken as given. The news is that I am pleased.

The subjunctive marks exactly that: this clause is not what I am asserting.

The feelings that take it:

FrenchPronunciationEnglish
être content que/ɛtʁ kɔ̃.tɑ̃ kə/to be glad that
être heureux que/ɛtʁ ø.ʁø kə/to be happy that
être triste que/ɛtʁ tʁist kə/to be sad that
être surpris que/ɛtʁ syʁ.pʁi kə/to be surprised that
être désolé que/ɛtʁ de.zo.le kə/to be sorry that
avoir peur que/a.vwaʁ pœʁ kə/to be afraid that
regretter que/ʁə.ɡʁɛ.te kə/to regret that
s'étonner que/se.tɔ.ne kə/to be astonished that
craindre que/kʁɛ̃dʁ kə/to fear that

And one exception: espérer que takes the indicative.

J'espère qu'il viendra. — not vienne

This exception is easy for you and the rule is not. English says "I hope he comes" with a plain indicative, exactly like French — so espérer que … viendra needs no effort at all.

The work is everywhere else. English also says "I'm glad you're here", "I'm sorry he's ill", "I'm afraid it's late" — all indicative, all requiring the subjunctive in French. There is nothing in the English sentence to warn you, which is why this has to be learnt as a list rather than felt.

The shortcut that avoids the whole problem: when both halves share a subject, use an infinitive instead.

Je suis content d'être là. — rather than que je sois là

And that construction is the natural one in French anyway, so it is not a dodge.

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