In one line
quistands in for the subject,quefor the object, andoùfor a place or a time.
The forms on this page
| Form | Means | Sound |
|---|---|---|
qui | who · which — when it is the subject of the second clause | /ki/ |
que | whom · which — when it is the object of the second clause | /kə/ |
où | where · when — for place and for time | /u/ |
The table
| Pronoun | Stands in for | The test | Pronunciation |
|---|---|---|---|
qui | the subject | a verb follows | /ki/ |
que | the object | a subject follows | /kə/ |
où | a place or time | a full clause follows | /u/ |
The three-second test
A verb follows →
qui. A subject follows →que.
Le livre qui est sur la table. /lə livʁ ki ɛ syʁ la tabl/ | a verb follows → qui /ki/ |
Le livre que je lis. /lə livʁ kə ʒə li/ | a subject follows → que /kə/ |
The English instinct here is wrong in a specific way, and knowing which way saves a lot of errors. English chooses between who and which according to whether the thing is a person or an object. French does not care about that at all.
quiis not "who" andqueis not "which" —quiis the subject form andqueis the object form, for people and things alike.
English French Why the man who is coming l'homme qui arrivesubject the man whom I know l'homme que je connaisobject the book which is here le livre qui est icisubject — still quithe book which I'm reading le livre que je lisobject — still queThe English pair that does map is
who/whom— the one distinction English has almost abandoned. If you can say "whom", useque; if only "who" works, usequi.
How you join two sentences
| Two sentences | One |
|---|---|
Je lis un livre. Le livre est intéressant. /ʒə li œ̃ livʁ/ · /lə livʁ ɛ.t‿ɛ̃.te.ʁɛ.sɑ̃/ | Je lis un livre qui est intéressant. /ʒə li œ̃ livʁ ki ɛ.t‿ɛ̃.te.ʁɛ.sɑ̃/ |
Voici le livre. Je lis le livre. /vwa.si lə livʁ/ · /ʒə li lə livʁ/ | Voici le livre que je lis. /vwa.si lə livʁ kə ʒə li/ |
C'est la ville. J'habite dans cette ville. /sɛ la vil/ · /ʒa.bit dɑ̃ sɛt vil/ | C'est la ville où j'habite. /sɛ la vil u ʒa.bit/ |
And one thing English lets you do that French does not: leave it out. "The book I'm reading", "the man I know" — English deletes the object relative entirely. French never deletes it.
Le livre je lisis not a sentence; it must beLe livre que je lis. Whenever your English sentence has no relative word at all, French needsque.
Exceptions
| Exception | What happens |
|---|---|
que /kə/ elides before a vowel | Le livre qu'il lit. /lə livʁ kil li/ |
qui /ki/ never elides | La personne qui arrive. /la pɛʁ.sɔn ki a.ʁiv/, not qu'arrive /ka.ʁiv/ |
que /kə/ triggers participle agreement | La lettre que j'ai écrite. /la lɛtʁ kə ʒe e.kʁit/ |
où /u/ is used for time as well | Le jour où je suis arrivé. /lə ʒu.ʁ‿u ʒə sɥi.z‿a.ʁi.ve/, not quand /kɑ̃/ |
dont /dɔ̃/ replaces de /də/ | Le livre dont je parle. /lə livʁ dɔ̃ ʒə paʁl/ — its own page |
After a preposition, qui /ki/ for people and lequel /lə.kɛl/ for things | La personne avec qui je travaille. /la pɛʁ.sɔ.n‿a.vɛk ki ʒə tʁa.vaj/ |
Examples
| English | French | Pronunciation |
|---|---|---|
| the book that's on the table | le livre qui est sur la table | /lə livʁ ki ɛ syʁ la tabl/ |
| the book I'm reading | le livre que je lis | /lə livʁ kə ʒə li/ |
| the city where I live | la ville où j'habite | /la vil u ʒa.bit/ |
| the day I arrived | le jour où je suis arrivé | /lə ʒuʁ u ʒə sɥi.za.ʁi.ve/ |
| the person I know | la personne que je connais | /la pɛʁ.sɔn kə ʒə kɔ.nɛ/ |
| the person who's arriving | la personne qui arrive | /la pɛʁ.sɔn ki a.ʁiv/ |
Common mistakes
| ❌ | ✅ | Why |
|---|---|---|
le livre que est sur la table | le livre qui est sur la table | A verb follows → qui |
le livre qui je lis | le livre que je lis | A subject follows → que |
qu'arrive | qui arrive | qui never elides |
le jour quand je suis arrivé | le jour où je suis arrivé | Time also takes où |
la ville que j'habite | la ville où j'habite | A place → où |
le livre je lis | le livre que je lis | French cannot drop the relative |
The two English habits to unlearn
animacy and deletion
English relative pronouns encode two things French ignores:
| English encodes | French encodes |
|---|---|
| person or thing — who / which | nothing |
| subject or object — who / whom, barely | everything — qui / que |
So the useful move is to stop asking "is this a person?" and start asking "what job does it do in the following clause?"
The second habit is deletion. English drops the object relative more often than it keeps it — "the film I saw", "the man she married". Every one of those needs que in French. A quick check when writing: if your French relative clause starts with a subject and there is no relative word, one is missing.
And the third, smaller one: où covers both "where" and "when" after a noun. le jour où, le moment où, l'année où — never quand, which is only used to ask questions and to introduce time clauses.